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ladyjdotnet
August 19, 2001 11:40 AM

Like I said, I'm done discussing the whole NastyPope insult rule hullabaloo. However, that thread contained a request to get a second chance. Skagg's request could be met with the comment that he continued to dig himself into a hole since the first moment I found him to be a disappointment... but for the sake of peace, I'll let those I dislike start at square one right this moment. My hypothesis is that the people who rubbed me the wrong way before will do it again.

So starting now, I am going to pretend that I never talked with skagg or crabby or any of the other people who made my skin itch. I'm not asking skagg or crabby to do anything other than be who they are, but this is a brand new chance to make a first impression, and it will be interesting to see what comes of it.

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wirthling
August 19, 2001 11:55 AM

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My hypothesis is that the people who rubbed me the wrong way before will do it again.

My hypothesis is that your hypothesis is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Oops, I think I just validated both of our hypotheses.

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skagg
August 19, 2001 12:12 PM

what was it i did to rub you the wrong way? i just dont remember

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Deisel
August 19, 2001 12:49 PM

No-one ever forgave me after my forgivenes note... see THE NEW ME

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ladyjdotnet
August 19, 2001 1:49 PM

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what was it i did to rub you the wrong way? i just dont remember

I can't tell you, because it's from the past before I decided to give you a second chance. I refuse to go back there and dredge up a reason to dislike you. We're starting from square one.

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ladyjdotnet
August 19, 2001 1:53 PM

quote:
quote:
My hypothesis is that the people who rubbed me the wrong way before will do it again.

My hypothesis is that your hypothesis is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Oops, I think I just validated both of our hypotheses.



I thought about that when I said it. I thought about not saying it, but to deny the thought would be to suppress it and therefore allow it free access to my unconscious. By confronting it, I believe I can figure out what it will influence and prevent that.

In all actuality, skagg and crabby will have it working in their favor since I will be giving them the benefit of the doubt.

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skagg
August 19, 2001 3:56 PM

quote:
quote:
what was it i did to rub you the wrong way? i just dont remember

I can't tell you, because it's from the past before I decided to give you a second chance. I refuse to go back there and dredge up a reason to dislike you. We're starting from square one.

oh please do dredge

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ladyjdotnet
August 19, 2001 5:09 PM

Right now you're rubbing me the wrong way by refusing to drop old shit that I said I was not going to consider any further. Do you really want this to be your new first impression?

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skagg
August 19, 2001 8:08 PM

how do you spell mneh? (sp)

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bunnerabb
August 20, 2001 1:00 AM

This is the reason I've avoided the comic cups. If I wanted inevitable melodrama, I'd buy a chick a ring.

As for second chances, they are indicative of some sort of supreme rule. Last I checked, you just worked here, too, toots.

And the rest of you: Get some manners. Ladies is ladies, and they gonna do what they do.

Grow up, for fuck sake.

I know that you all know better than this shit.

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ladyjdotnet
August 20, 2001 6:18 AM

bunnerabb, I would not have said anything about second chances, except for the fact that skagg asked me for a second chance, in just so many words. I was satisfied to continue to dislike him, but he asked a favor, and I chose to grant it. It has nothing to do with supremacy or rule or anything like that. It has to do with fulfilling a request and trying to be fair about it.

I've held myself back from commenting at all on the Deisel situation for two reasons. The first reason is that I know that attention is what he's looking for, and his attempts for it have been feeble at best. The second reason is that I know I'm getting a reputation for being harsh with people, and I'm trying to cut that down. I find it ironic that the person who told Deisel to "shut the fuck up" is getting on my ass for the way in which I interact with people.

As for melodrama, no one else felt it necessary to jump in on the thing between me and skagg. For melodrama to thrive, it requires participants. You just helped to create what you decry.

I'm planning on going back to playing in the contests. I'm also going to continue to have opinions and share some of them. If you have a problem with that, write to your congressman.

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DexX
August 20, 2001 9:31 AM

Hey, here's an idea - maybe it would be best to keep it to yourself if you don't like other regular forum users, mainly because this is meant to be fun, and by bringing up your own personal gripes with people you really don't even know you are bringing the mood down considerably. LadyJ, if you don't like skagg, then why don't you just ignore him? I don't need to hear about it, I think skagg could do without it, and I am pretty sure it doesn't exactly brighten up the days of the rest of the forum users, either. If you have some kind of problem with another user, I think it is up to you to deal with it.

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ladyjdotnet
August 20, 2001 11:47 AM

GODDAMNIT.

I have been ignoring him. I've been ignoring him and crabby. I opted to abstain from voting in one case rather than speak about how much skagg annoys me. I only mentioned my dislike for them as a point of reference for the whole NastyPope situation because if I had said "I'm kidding when I poke fun." I'd have been LYING. I do not lie. I have backed off. SKAGG asked ME to give him a second chance.

I cannot think of anything more hypocritical than people chiming in to opine that I should keep my opinions to myself.

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wirthling
August 20, 2001 11:57 AM

I'm willing to give LadyJ a second chance.

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boorite
August 20, 2001 12:00 PM

quote:
GODDAMNIT.


SHIT! FUCK! SONOFACOCKSUCKER!

I don't have an opinion. I just like to cuss.

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ladyjdotnet
August 20, 2001 4:38 PM

"Rat Shit! Bat Shit! Dirty old Twat!
Sixty-Nine Assholes Tied in a Knot!
YaaaaaAAAYY Lizard Shit!
FUCK!"

-George Carlin

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gabe_billings
August 20, 2001 6:47 PM

Yahoo! A second chance!

This time through life I'd like to be a female. Preferably a redhead. And I want to be married to boorite, but I want his name to be Borris. And I want wirthling and to be our son. And he'll grow up to be a famous matador. And I'll sell real estate. And we'll all live in Maryland and drive Volvos.

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gabe_billings
August 20, 2001 6:47 PM

On second though, can I have a third chance and have everyone forget I just said that?

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gabe_billings
August 20, 2001 7:39 PM

And could I have a genie that would proofread my stuff and pick out all the stupid fucking spelling errors and extra words?

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boorite
August 21, 2001 7:48 AM

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On second though, can I have a third chance and have everyone forget I just said that?

Damn, I was all set for hot goateed redhead buttlove.

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Deisel
August 21, 2001 11:43 AM

Can I have a second chance? Please!

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ladyjdotnet
August 21, 2001 1:55 PM

Let's play a game. How about the "Let's see how long Deisel can be quiet game"? Ready, go!

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crabby
August 25, 2001 8:31 PM

Hey ya'll I'm back from vacation. Incase anyone cares.

It's great to see LadyJ giving me a second chance, I've always been a big fan of her work. However I was unaware of the fact that we were on the outs at all. While I've always considered our relationship to be strictly buisness I always thought we shared some laughs.

However I was mistaken. I hope that LadyJ continues to put out posts and comics that live up to her high standards of excellence. I also hope one day we can look back at this whole situation and laugh.

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Drexle
August 25, 2001 11:33 PM

31442

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Deisel
August 26, 2001 11:56 AM

why does everyone hate me? i'm only trying to fit in somewhere!!

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