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A friend of mine, or maybe it was me, once said to women at large, "You have no male friends who haven't thought about sleeping with you. They may never mention it, they may not really think it's a good idea, but at some point, they've thought about it." Women who hear this statement are usually mildly astonished. Men nod knowingly.
These are just my experiences, and I'm sure someone will now post contrary evidence.
I was talking to a female friend the other day who wanted my opinion on how to deal with male friends. She had a couple guys she really like hanging out with but didn't really have any interest in relationship-wise. She wanted to know if it was better to come out and tell them ahead of time, or do nothing until they made the first move.
She's got a great personality, a good sense of humor and is very attractive. I told her that I'd have trouble imagining any single male not having a bit of interest in the relationship department in mind when hanging out with her.
I figured letting them know ahead of time was the polite thing to do. Basically a preemptive strike of 'I just want to be friends.'
I figure if it's going to happen anyway, why prolong it? Better to change you mind down the road. That'd only make them happy.
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100 pounds of shit in a 25 pound sack.