Who here has ever gotten completely off while simply talking to someone - either on a phone or "chatting" online. Is this just a guy thing? Any ladies been able to enjoy themselves this way? Mind you, I see no shame in this. Sex is not shameful when nobody gets TRULY hurt.
I have always wondered at the supposed success of phone sex, though. I called a number ages ago and just couldn't get into talking dirty with the nice, seemingly intelligent lady on the other end. She made a great effort to hyper-drive me into spirtyland with her voice and words - she had some interesting ideas. But I couldn't help being a smart ass and breaking the mood. In the end she just chatted with me, rather befuddled that I was spending so much just to hear her talk. On the up-side, she had a very nice voice.
Thinking of this makes me glad to be married.
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"Jelly-belly gigglin, dancin and a-wigglin, honey that's the way I am!" Janice the Muppet