Dude... I just completed a fantastic personal development course! It taught me to not only take responsibilty for my life, but to lead others to do the same for their lives...
I'll give you an example: Before the training, if a homeless person asked me for some spare change, I would say under my breath as I'm walking away, "Get a fucking job."
And now..?
Now, in I look him or her straight in the eyes, clear in my intention, and yell, "GET A FUCKING JOB, ASSHOLE!!"