If you have room, count me in Rabid. Second, I absolutely abhor Valentine's Day. In my opinion, it's too hyped up, and it makes people like me and possibly a few others on SC jealous of what we can't have. On the other hand, I can understand that Valentine's Day can be a very joyous, and romantic occasion. $0.02

ATTENTION WOMEN: DO STUFF FOR YOUR GUY AS WELL.

Don't just make guys do shit for you. Yes, I love making girls happy. But is a nice, long BJ out of order on such an occasion? I mean, I actually do like mushy romance, but its annoying when we have to court you all fucking night because of some silly expectations forced on you by Hallmark and not get anything in return.

If V-day is about couples, then act like it. I don't want to spend 50 bones on roses, one hour massaging, then another of cunnilingus without some sort of return.

V-day is fun if you have a partner, and shouldn't matter if you don't. I basically have decided that its an "anniversary" type occasion for couples that haven't been together a year, and a night of guaranteed sex for couples that have been together for more years than they can remember. Plus, I like mushy romance stuff.

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Sex Piano.

One word, billee: Duh.

The double-standard about Valentine's Day is NOT that women expect guys to actually get off their asses for one day to do something nice for them, it's that men generally need a whole separate DAY to actually wrap their minds around such a concept.

Women generally give the day all the effort you describe, including the giving head part. In fact, they generally do it all on a daily basis. The fact that men seem to need a reason to be affectionate is the sad part.

Luckily, my relationship with my man is awesome. There is frequent giving of gifts, love, and head from both of us - No holiday required.

P.S. - if you're going down out of some sense of obligation, or investment in the probability of reciprocation - don't. She can tell, and it makes it feel cheap and much less enjoyable. If you're not doing it because you absolutely love it, just buy her a vibrator and make yourself scarce.

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LadyJ-
I was not trying to imply that these should not be normal things-- I'm just talking about excessive EVERYTHING. Basically, what would not be practical on a normal day. And I love giving all that. I just don't like the feeling I get when I don't get the same lovin' back.

In any case, that complaint was intended for newer (read: younger than a year) couples.

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Sex Piano.

Heh, my man and I have been together since 7/2/03.

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I am a delicate fucking flower. https://beacons.ai/jesskent

Ow ow ow! Long term relationship! *sizzle*

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It is, though. We're getting hitched in October.

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I am a delicate fucking flower. https://beacons.ai/jesskent

I just want to say that the best way to get a guy to do anything for you, on V-Day or any other day, is to give him head.

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The giant three-phallused phallus of Uzbekistan will one day squirt the cosmic jizz of revenge all over Canada.

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ATTENTION WOMEN: DO STUFF FOR YOUR GUY AS WELL.

Don't just make guys do shit for you. Yes, I love making girls happy. But is a nice, long BJ out of order on such an occasion? I mean, I actually do like mushy romance, but its annoying when we have to court you all fucking night because of some silly expectations forced on you by Hallmark and not get anything in return.

If V-day is about couples, then act like it. I don't want to spend 50 bones on roses, one hour massaging, then another of cunnilingus without some sort of return.

V-day is fun if you have a partner, and shouldn't matter if you don't. I basically have decided that its an "anniversary" type occasion for couples that haven't been together a year, and a night of guaranteed sex for couples that have been together for more years than they can remember. Plus, I like mushy romance stuff.

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Head rules.

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The giant three-phallused phallus of Uzbekistan will one day squirt the cosmic jizz of revenge all over Canada.

V-day is important to SO MANY GIRLS so you guys, uh, don't count, or something. Ah, fine, you win. Damn women with your estrogen.

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Sex Piano.

If you're going to admit defeat, at least admit defeat to the correct argument. You have interpreted my point entirely inaccurately.

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That might work...or it might make a woman feel like a whore without pay (speaking of hormones). I find it a bit disturbing that people don't 'do something' for their mate with or without reciprocation or holidays or expensive gifts.

He/she just get home from work tired? Pull yourself away from whatever you're doing if it's not that important, and give them a back or foot massage. Bring them breakfast in bed once in awhile, or a flower from the garden. A cold drink, a hot cup of tea, any of those little things that never go unappreciated.

Bunner used to date someone special to him that would take warm clothes out of the dryer and pile them on top of him when it was really cold outside. I thought that was really sweet.

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“It is only with the heart that one sees rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” - The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry (1945)

Sweet, or potentailly dangerous missy? A hot rivet on a pair of jeans from the dryer can really leave a mark let me tell you.
Hmmn, perhaps she had passive aggressive tendancies. Yes, that must have been it.

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GOVT. Warning: Do not smoke around children they will badger you for fags.

Ouch... didn't think about that.
BTW, MikeyG, I like your spirit too.

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“It is only with the heart that one sees rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” - The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry (1945)

Spirit? I'd say it is more akin to the texture of a creamy liqueur, at a guess. And a foul tasting one at that.

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GOVT. Warning: Do not smoke around children they will badger you for fags.

Considering how young many of the users are on this site... this recent discussion just seems really disturbing to me.

...even if you disregard the fact that I became sexually active at 14. Still. Doesn't mean it was right.

:-p

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...even if you disregard the fact that I became sexually active at 14. Still. Doesn't mean it was right.

:-p

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Spirit? I'd say it is more akin to the texture of a creamy liqueur, at a guess. And a foul tasting one at that.

Hey! Scroo yoo, smam!

Beaz, what you and I did with each other when you were 14 and I was...uh...17? 18? 12? is none of ANYONE'S business!

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The giant three-phallused phallus of Uzbekistan will one day squirt the cosmic jizz of revenge all over Canada.

This is just a general response to the thread title:

Put out.

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dcomposed:11-06-05: If I was a viking invading your village, you'd be the first to get raped.
Crabby: 10/5/06: i would love to feed you fresh fruit while bathing you.

Haha, nothing most of us haven't heard before, don't you watch MTV? It's almost as good as watching a man yell "SEX" over and over and over again. Hello. blink 182!

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This is just a general response to the thread title:

Put out.

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Yes, Beaz, you're right on all counts. But head rocks, and you totally can't argue with that.

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This is just a general response to the thread title:

Put out.

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(can't believe I'm saying this, but...)

That's a horrible example for the young girls out there. I dislike prudes as much as the next guy, but just being a slut doesn't get what you want, it makes me stop calling you (fear of STDs).

Personally, I think chicks just need to be appreciative of what guys do for them as boyfriends (and I mean the good bf's, not this shit-lazy ones). We are in charge of the courting, the dinners, the entertainment, and generally being gentlemen and looking out for the girl. Meanwhile, the girl just has to look pretty.

The biggest problem I've ever had with girls is that they sometimes seem to think that it is God's Will that a guy should spend every last hard earned penny on them. This is bullshit. Of course, my first 3 serious girlfriend were ALLLLL spoiled brats. But I've noticed it in others too.

Just be appreciative of the guy, and show it in whatever way you see fit. If you're in the type of relationship that requires you to be physical, then do that, or maybe the guy would like YOU to plan a night for once... do that then.

There are just other ways to impress me than a BJ. And believe me, there's nothing I love more than to receive, but maybe I just respect my girls more than that.

Shrug.

My $0.02.

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Sarcasm? No, you were right: PUT OUT.

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