Okay, this girl I liked a lot and who actually used to like me, now thinks I'm sketchy and is uncomfortable around me, because I drank waaaaaaaaaay too much at a party last night and acted like a beligerent ass and puked in the house. I had a blackout so I don't remember shit, but apparently I said something to her too which she took offense to as well. I'm really embarrassed over the whole ordeal, and I was wondering if anyone could think of a way to fix it. Obviously I can't ask her out at this stage, but if anyone knows of a way I can sorta-kinda reverse the damage that's been done I would appreciate it.

Ugh... I'm such an idiot.

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Y'see, kids? If y'all drink yo alkeehol n' not 'tcho vitamins C, B, and Clorox, ya'll 'aint gonna get none pussy!

Stay in school, crackas!

Just wait about ten years, and you'll both probably be able to laugh about it.

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Legend, oh legend, the third wheel legend...always in the way.

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Poop.

This would probably be a good time to tell her about your evil twin.

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I was gonna send a robot back in time, but I got high.

1. Time machine, a la HG Well (or Ray Bradbury).

2. Grovel. Grovel like there's no tomorrow. Sure, she'll grind her stiletto heels in you, and you'll be horribly embarrassed for what seems like ages (a few days, real-time) but most girls enjoy the tingly sensation of Having Been Heard and of Altering A Boy's Habits. Of course, some of them just like the power trips.

3. Discard. Lots of girls to fish for in the sea. Find one with a sense of humour as considerable as your would-be drinking capacity.

-Q

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Anyhoo, I can relate to a kinda similar event. Just explain to her that you were drunk and thats all you can do. Just be honest, and admit to everything that she accuses you of. Remember, give her the upper hand or she'll be even more pissed.

In all seriousness you should probably apologize, but I don't think expecting anything out of it other than forgiveness is possible. But hey, that's better than nothing.

I live for the power trips.

You are guessing.Good call.Don't blame the Ripple, my friend.A little club soda and a snow shovel will clean that up.then deny everything.Touchy bitch.You are a slave.I don't see anything as broken.Why the fuck not?Scarf clam until her ears bleed. She'll suffer a blackout and never mention it again.

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Ugh... I'm such an idiot.

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That is just simply the finest advice I've ever heard. So...it was a party at her house with alcohol. It should just be a matter of time before a blackout of her own. I wouldn't even worry, shes just fucking with you because she can. Just play it off like a coy felon and you'll get off scot free. It actually sounds like a cute story you'll both look back on 10 years from now while sipping wine coolers in your hot tub. Can I be an at the wedding?

Hey, you asked for advice.

My father once told me "I try to only worry about the things in my life I have control over. So I don't worry too much."

Basically, if this girl has an uncomfortable opinion of you right now, than that sucks. But people are going to have different opinions of you, and you can't (legally) force people to change their minds. C'est la vie.

What you can do is put that night and those comments out of her mind by setting a good example. Apologize. Be considerate that she is upset, and be her friend. Yes, you can use the 'I was drunk' excuse to reduce some of the shame, but don't overdo it or she'll question your sincerity in taking your lumps.

You have to just make her see that your drunken night was an exception to who you are, and not a staple of it.

Be sincere, be honest, but don't be a push-over. And if despite your efforts she continues to treat you like a pariah or hang this incident over your head, then she's not worth the angst.

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Use your weapons, they are designed to inflict damage!

Thanks for the comments. SpiderChris gets the pimp-playa award for the best advice I think. And yes, Usher can come to the wedding in 10 years.

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I say fuck it. Find someone more worth your time and effort. If you have to go out of your way to make the bitch happy, and she can't take you for who you are, no matter what the state of intoxication (unless you try to rape her, then I'll find you and rip your balls off then shove them up your ass), then she's not worth the fucking mental effort.

Don't bother with these touchy, flippant cunts that just want to screw with your mind and your dick.

If all else fails, just do whatever feels right to you. Me personally, I'm just going to be a right dick from this day forth. My new theme song is "No More Mr. Nice Guy".

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I say fuck it. Find someone more worth your time and effort. If you have to go out of your way to make the bitch happy, and she can't take you for who you are, no matter what the state of intoxication (unless you try to rape her, then I'll find you and rip your balls off then shove them up your ass), then she's not worth the fucking mental effort.

Don't bother with these touchy, flippant cunts that just want to screw with your mind and your dick.

If all else fails, just do whatever feels right to you. Me personally, I'm just going to be a right dick from this day forth. My new theme song is "No More Mr. Nice Guy".

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There's always going to be someone who likes you for who you are. I haven't found anyone who fits that description yet, but I'll let you know if I ever do.

I think they have to get past the bald and the bad teeth first though.

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There's always going to be someone who likes you for who you are. I haven't found anyone who fits that description yet, but I'll let you know if I ever do.

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Crabby, if I ever meet you, I'm going to punch you.

And I'm going to totally fucking stomp you into the fucking ground.

NERD!

I lie. I would just wanna hang out and jam. Maybe watch a little DragonBall GT and wear flannel together.

I think you've gotten some good (and some bad) advice so far, but to add to whatever you decide to do, do it in writing. Then you won't make her uncomfortable by putting her on the spot to forgive you, and you won't get tongue tied and dig yourself in deeper.

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I think, therefore I make comments on a forum.

Asking SC'ers for romantic advice is like asking Dubya how to balance a budget.

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"We're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did." Groucho Marx

What did Dubya ever do to you Chubby?

It's obvious that CHUBBY is W. He did release a rap album which flopped titled "The 23rd Letter."